Successful people think with strong minds. They prepare themselves mentally every day so they are prepared to face the challenges in their lives that may arise. These seven fearless ways of thinking, compiled from Forbes, are ones you may want to consider implementing yourself:
1) Move On
Fearless people, successful people, are not afraid to move on in life. They do not “waste time feeling sorry for themselves,” because they know it is not productive to their end goal. “They have learned to take responsibility for their actions and outcomes, and have an inherent understanding of the fact that frequently life
is not fair.” At the end of the day, fair is a child’s word. When people realize this, they stop dwelling on the past and bounce back from mistakes faster. This allows them to be more successful in life because they do not waste
time being upset about things they cannot change. Instead, they use that time to productively work on conquering new goals.
2) Keep Their Power
“Mentally strong people avoid giving others the power to make them feel inferior or bad.” Rather than allowing the thoughts of the many different people they come across affect their way of thinking, successful people realize
that everybody has different opinions and that not everybody’s opinions matter or should be taken personally. They know they are “in control of their actions and emotions. They know their strength is in their ability to manage the way they respond.” Even when the chips are down and the insults feel personal, successful people find a way to look ahead and ignore the people tearing them down.
3) Accept Change
There is an old adage that claims the only things that
are certain in life are death and change. “Mentally strong
people embrace change and they welcome challenge.” In
order to change yourself, you have to challenge yourself.
If you are not challenging yourself, you are going to
stay in the same spot for the rest of your life or
ultimately begin to slip backwards. Mentally strong
people, fearless people, successful people think in a way
that will allow them to make changes in their life and
accept changes that come so that they can get stronger
with each day. “An environment of change and even
uncertainty can energize a mentally strong person and
bring out their best.”
4) Take Calculated Risks
“A mentally strong person is willing to take calculated
risks.” Successful people think that risks sometimes
bring out the best results in life. They aren’t careless,
but rather “weigh the risks and benefits thoroughly, and
will fully assess the potential downsides and even the
worst-case scenarios before they take action.” They
don’t shy away from risks, but they don’t plunge into
ones without thinking them through first. However, it is
the risks in life that make life interesting and sometimes
bring out the most incredible results. Successful people
are wiling to take this chance when it makes sense to
them.
5) Applaud Others’ Successes
Jealousy and resentment are both emotions that can be
incredibly prohibiting to one’s success. “It takes strength
of character to feel genuine joy and excitement for other
people’s success. Mentally strong people have this
ability.” You only get what you work for in life. Dwelling
on the idea of unfair successes will get you nowhere.
Successful people think, and they think correctly, that
the successes of other people are not inversely tied with
their own failures. They can recognize the difference
between their own successes and the successes of
others and realize that even if there is a possible
connection, the focus that will provide the most
beneficial outcome is for them to focus on their own
journeys and successes.
6) Remain Resilient
“Every failure is a chance to improve.” Successful people
fail, too. The difference is that they get back up and
keep fighting. No successful person is where they are
today because they just slipped through life as casually
as an afternoon breeze in the autumn. Every person in
this world who is truly successful has been tenacious
and hard-working. “Mentally strong people are willing to
fail again and again, as long as the learning experience
from every ’failure’ can bring them closer to their
ultimate goals.” Sometimes failure teaches you more
than a win ever could.
7) Earn Their Wins
Successful people think in terms of earning potential.
They do not “feel the world owes them anything.
Particularly in the current economy, executives and
employees at every level are gaining the realization that
the world does not owe them.” In order to be
successful, it is vital that you think with a strong mind
and work for your successes. They will never be handed
to you on a silver platter. You must earn them and even
when you think you’ve earned them, realize that
sometimes you have to work four times as hard as you
could have ever expected to get somewhere. Yet,
successful people think, and think correctly, that if they
work hard enough they will eventually earn the wins
they want in life. The world may not owe them anything,
but the world is much more likely to give them things if
they work hard for them.
Source: Forbes
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